Hunt, Gather, Books!

Sister of Darkness: The Chronicles of a Modern Exorcist by R.H. Stavis with Sarah Durand

This book was recommended to me by my Spirit Work mentor, because I described for them in something that I was experiencing when I was practicing mediumship. Because of this, I read it quickly and then, re-read it again.
Stavis is a horror screenwriter and a secular exorcist. She clears a range of dark forces from people of all backgrounds, including hollywood elites, athletes, and anyone who needs her help. In the book I was personally taken with her stories about seeing invisible entities as a child, but learning to ignore them because of disbelief and punishment. However, adulthood comes for us all, and Stavis had to accept and hone her gift, mostly on her own.
Through stories of the exorcisms she performs, emotions seem to be the biggest factor in what creates the possession or attachment of these negative forces. Stavis does refer to them as demons and there isn’t just one kind of demon, which she details throughout the book. Whether its a Clive, Wraith, Trickster, Collector (shudder), Furbies, Realm Walkers, Poofs, or Sandman, Stavis takes you on an underworld tour in a open, witty, and unashamed way, without seeming cocky.
The weird thing is it all makes sense when you close the book. Want to shake up your book club next month? Pick this one up and watch the conversations erupt into the paranormal.
Mycelium Running: How Mushrooms Can Help Save the World by Paul Stamets

The biggest takeaway from this book is that I NEED to get his book Growing Gourmet and Medicinal Mushrooms the next time my book piggy bank is full again.
The connection Stamets has with mushrooms is what I would call divine. He doesn’t say it in the book, but the language, stories, and presentation showed me a more animistic worldview If you garden or grow food, reading this book will blow your mind when you learn everything about fungi.
A good core of the book – almost manual like – is about how mushrooms restore ecology out of balance. If you farm, forest, clean up pollution, or just like eating chanterelles, this is a near expansive mushroom-tech encyclopedia on everything fungi. Nothing in the book has not been experienced by the author, too, so the stories behind the information, the practical applications, and recommendations all come from Stamet’s lived experience, with all the scientific footnotes included. More reading, yay!
The Reverse Centaur’s Guide to Life After AI: How to Think About Artificial Intelligence Before It’s Too Late by Cory Doctorow

You don’t have to be a Tech Witch to read this book. There is more to AI than most of us realize, and Doctorow breaks it down into accessible chunks for even those among us that are tech-noobs. There is some tie in back to his book Enshittification, and if you haven’t read that, I would recommend reading that first before this, because you have a better establishing view of the corporate influence all of it.
Doctorow does not provide all doom and gloom regarding AI in this book and presents some very useful ideas that can be applied to how we apply any of our energies, not just Large Model Machine Learning capabilities. If AI is frightening to you, there’s some definite hell-yeah moments that bring hope into a potentially scary future with this tech. The key he presents in the book revolves around open-source, ethically generated, low-energy models, AI might be a good partner for humanity.
However, as this book brings to light, the problem is what it always is, money. Tech companies are now what they call “growth” companies and are worth more than standard corporations. This means that Meta or Google use AI to convince investors to bring more money because they are just expanding, in other words, growing. Because billions of dollars are not enough. Which will bring an AI crash, he wrote, “Remember: the reason the ai bubble exists is that companies want to prove that they have high growth potential, in order to secure high profit to earnings rations, which will let them buy businesses and hire key employees with stock, rather than cash.”
If you, like me, have already digested a bunch of Doctorow’s work, including his podcasts and blog posts, this solidifies all he’s been saying about AI into one quickly read volume. If you’ve read nothing about Artificial Intelligence, this one has a deep focus on the money, the good, the bad, and the ugly, but also some hopeful likelihoods that we can all contribute to (like pulling any stock – e.g. retirement savings – out of anything heavily invested in AI). In the end, they will come back to humans doing things because none of it is sustainable. It is not inevitable.
Hunt, Gather, Parent: What Ancient Cultures Can Teach Us About the Lost Art of Raising Happy, Helpful Little Humans by Michaeleen Doucleff

Why would a Crone pick up a book like this? Because there’s a grandchild in my life now and I know that how I raised my kids probably isn’t the best way, despite feeling like I did a passable job given each kid and the circumstances of the world and my own life while being a mom.
I loved that the author – a PhD and former NPR reporter investigated how the rest of the world parents their children because there weren’t enough studies that explained why Western parents raise their children so differently to the rest of the world and why we do it. What she discovered was that there is a better way and we’ve been duped into believing we’re helping our kids by doing it this way.
She visits a Mayan village in the Yucatan Peninsula, Inuit families above the Artic Circle, and Hadzabe families in Tanzania. These cultures do not have the same problems with children that we do in the West. She discovers that there is a Universal Parenting Method around the world that does not exist in the USA for certain. This parenting style is built on cooperation, not control. There is no fear, but rather trust, and the kids in these parts of the world are loyal helpers to their entire community, not just their family. There’s no bribing, chore charts (a favorite tactic I employed, ugh), and a deeply ingrained focus on emotional intelligence and being calm while teaching and instructing. There is no anxious kids in these cultures and in many others like their are here in America.
Now, there’s no “you’re doing it wrong” slung at the reader, just evidence of Doucleff’s own struggles and comparing her lived experience and need for knowledge and new tactics so that she didn’t hate being a parent – and if you’re a parent and reading this, you know there are times where it is the hardest thing ever. Regardless you have to show up. Doucleff bolsters her interviews and investigations with these far-flung cultures with information and studies from mental health professionals, psychologists, neuroscientists, anthropologists, and sociologists.
How consumerism has ruined families is pretty evident in this book, too. It scratched an itch I had about how I had been feeling about making time with my Grand Witchling more about them accompanying me in my life and learning from the everyday things I do as opposed to activities being kid-focused. She’s on Team Gigi & Pop-pop. Western parents are in a current crisis of making the child run the ship. This book redirects how being the adult helps a child’s emotional intelligence development. One of the things I was always cognizant of in my own parenting experience is that I wasn’t raising children, I was raising adults, and the autonomy tips in this book lean that way as well. Autonomy is different than independence or individualism and is something the rest of the world understands in its parenting, but western parents could learn lots from just this point in the book. In the end, parents set the schedule and tone and only interfere when safety is an issue or to teach cultural values.
Ask yourself if you’re a U.S. parent – what cultural values are you teaching your kids beyond consumerism? If you are teaching them helpfulness, teamwork, and ways to explore without entitlement, you’re ahead of this book. But if you are constantly giving verbal instructions, your kids and you are stressed out. Learning to ask questions instead of giving commands is a big part of this book – The questions are not to give the kid a choice – that stresses the kid out often, too. But those questions are to make them think about what their actions do in the context of the rest of the world, e.g. consideration of others (including parents).
My only issue with this book is there is some lines of questioning the author suggests that border on shaming a child. Again, I think if you apply being calm and peaceful and never raising your voice, they can come off a bit more introspective for the kid, but I would caution any parent or grandparent about this part.
Yet the good of the book outweighed some of the questionable and I’d hand this book out to any new parent or parent-to-be. And of course, I’d give to grandparents, too.





















